Episode 117

Motivation

And that’s about the best I can come up with for biological-reason for the orgasm and general ‘fun’ of sexing. This certainly isn’t a revelation, but it is in my own words.

From a male’s perspective, there’s really no higher purpose to it, since I doubt that ‘emotional-bonding’ would even exist without the physical drive. I certainly feel closer to my girl afterwards, but for most men, it’s nearly impossible to divorce horny from ‘needing intimacy.’ It’s pretty much the same feeling, and I really don’t think that takes anything away from the result.

If anything, the afterglow is token insurance that we’ll actually stay bonded to our mate. A lot of men aren’t even wired that way, but I think it’s becoming more accepted that many women aren’t either. I certainly won’t go into psychological and sociological speculation about that, but I can say with confidence that young men are biologically ‘tricked’ into relationships by perusing sex, and are later blindsided by the intimacy.

Then again, maybe it’s the same for young women. I wouldn’t know.

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